LOVE AND FAITH

 LOVE AND FAITH

No female is worthy to be a spouse who on the day of her marriage isn't always lost without a doubt and absolutely in an atmosphere of affection and ideal belief; the excellent sacredness of the relation is the most effective element which, at the time, ought to possess her soul.  

Women must not "obey" guys any greater than guys have to obey ladies. There are six necessities in each glad marriage; the first is Faith, and the remaining 5 are Confidence. Nothing so compliments a man as for a girl to believe in him nothing so pleases a girl as for a man to place confidence in her. 

Obey? God help me! Yes, if I cherished a woman, my complete heart's choice would be to obey her slightest desire. And how could 

I love her except I had perfect confidence that she would best aspire to what changed into lovely, authentic, and proper? And to allow her to recognize this ideal, her desire would be to me a sacred command; and her attitude of mind closer to me I recognize would be equal. And the simplest rivalry among us might be as to who should love the maximum, and the desire to obey might be the one controlling impulse of our lives. 

ACQUIRE POWER THROUGH SELF DEVELOPMENT. 

It is the natural proper of each person to be glad to escape all the miseries of existence. Happiness is a regular situation, as natural as the landscapes and the seasons. It is unnatural to go through and it is the handiest because of our lack of expertise that we do suffer. Happiness is made from wisdom. To reap the best knowledge, to realize completely the cause of existence, to recognize absolutely the connection of humans to each different, is to put an give up to all struggling, to break out every unwell and evil that afflicts us. Perfect knowledge is unshadowed joy. 

Why do we suffer in existence? Because inside the scheme of nature we're being forced ahead in evolution and we lack the religious illumination that by myself can light the way and allow us to move appropriately a number of the obstacles that lie before us. Usually, we do no longer even see or suspect the presence of trouble until it suddenly leaps upon us like a concealed tiger. One day our circle of relatives circle is complete and glad. A week later loss of life has come and gone and pleasure is replaced with agony. Today we've got a pal. Tomorrow he could be an enemy and we do now not realize why. A little even as in the past we had wealth and all fabric luxuries. There changed into a surprising alternate and now we have the simplest poverty and misery and yet we are looking for useless for a reason why this ought to be. 

There was a time while we had fitness and strength; however, they have got both departed and no trace of a reason seems. Aside from those more tragedies of lifestyles innumerable things of lesser effect constantly deliver to us little miseries and minor heartaches. We maximum earnestly desire to keep away from them but we in no way see them until they strike us, until in the darkness of our lack of expertise we blunder upon them. 

The factor we lack is the religious illumination with a purpose to allow us to appearance far and wide, finding the hidden causes of human struggling and revealing the approach by using which they'll be averted; and if we are able to but reach illumination the evolutionary adventure may be made each comfortably and hastily. It is as though we should skip thru a long, dark room full of furnishings promiscuously scattered about. In the darkness, our development might be slow and painful and our bruises many. But if we could press a button that would switch on the electric light we could then make the equal adventure fast and with perfect protection and comfort. 

The old approach of training turned into storing the mind with as many records, or supposed data, as will be accumulated and to give a positive outdoors polish to the personality. The theory turned into that after a man changed into born he was a completed human being and that each one that could be executed for him turned into to load him up with data that might be used with extra or much less skill, according to the native capability he happened to be born with. 

The Theosophical concept is that the physical guy, and all that constitutes his lifestyles in the physical global, is but a very partial expression of the self; that inside the ego of each there may be almost unlimited power and awareness; that these may be delivered thru into expression within the bodily global as the bodily frame and its invisible opposite numbers, which together represent the complex car of the ego's manifestation, are evolved and adapted to the reason; and that in the specific share that conscious attempt is given to such self-development will religious illumination be executed and know-how attained. Thus the mild that leads to happiness is kindled from within and the evolutionary adventure that each one is making may be robbed of its suffering. 

Why does death deliver distress? Chiefly because it separates us from those we adore. The handiest another purpose why death brings grief or fear is due to the fact we do not recognize it and realize the component it performs in human evolution.  But the instant our lack of awareness gives manner to comprehension such worry vanishes and a serene happiness takes its area. 

Why do we have enemies from whose phrases or acts we suffer? Because in our constrained bodily consciousness we do now not perceive the team spirit of all lifestyles and realize that our wrong questioning and doing have to react upon us via different humans a state of affairs from which there's no possible escape except thru ceasing to assume evil and then patiently looking forward to the time while the reasons we've got already generated are fully exhausted. When spiritual illumination comes, and we now not stumble in the nighttime of lack of know-how, the final enemy will disappear and we shall make no more for all time. 

Why do people be afflicted by poverty and sickness? Only because of our blundering lack of know-how that makes their existence feasible for us, and because we do not realize their which means and their lessons, nor understand the mindset to expect closer to them. Had we but the knowledge to apprehend why they arrive at human beings, why they may be important elements in their evolution, they could hassle us no longer. When nature's lesson is fully found out these mute teachers will vanish.

We gain freedom via giving it, and he who bestows religion gets it returned with the hobby. To bargain and stipulate in love is to lose. 

Perfect faith implies ideal love, and ideal love casteth out fear. It is continually the worry of imposition, and a lurking reason to rule, that reasons the woman to haggle over a word it's far the absence of love, a problem, an incapacity. The rate of perfect love is absolute and complete surrender. 

To deliver a person something for nothing has a tendency to make the person disappointed with himself. 

Your enemies are those you have helped. 

And when a man or woman is disappointed with himself he is disenchanted with the whole international and with you. 

A man's quarrel with the arena is most effective a quarrel with himself. But so sturdy is that this inclination to lay blame someplace else and take credit to ourselves, that when we're unhappy we say it's far the fault of this female or that man. Especially do women characteristic their misery to That Man. 

And regularly the hassle is he has given her an excessive amount of for not anything. This truth is a reversible, back-action one, nicely lubricated by use, working both methods as the case can be. 

That form of love that drives sharp deals and makes needs gets a test at the financial institution in which there is no stability. 

There is not anything so expensive as something you get for not anything.